Blacks dating blacks
The natural course for me as a dark skinned South Indian man was to find a girl who was fair because that is the accepted norm.
When I landed on US shores, I had an abundance of fairness so to speak.
In the course of our conversation, we touched on various topics, but a particular question directed at me stood out in particular.
You may or may not remember me from our wonderful video conference chat earlier this year where you interviewed mixed race / ethnic couples where the lady is black / African American and the man is of a different race. My name is [withheld] and I am married to “Helen”, my black queen (with no due respect to Mr. I am a 31-year-old man from South India living in the USA.
Circling back to the original question (please forgive me for going off in a tangent), my answer is yes, I’m a unicorn and I’ll do my best to answer why.
India is a big, beautiful and diverse country with people from a multitude of races, ethnicities, linguistic backgrounds, religious backgrounds and cultural backgrounds.
This very base form of discrimination which I believe to be primordial, wasn’t eliminated with human advancement, but was rather given a different name in the form of the Caste System (The Caste System was a way to divide labor in ancient Indian civilizations based on profession).
To be clear, she’s not against interracial dating — but she thinks many black men seek out white women for the wrong reason.When she came into my life, in 2015, she saved me from an abyss of hopelessness and made me feel like I was a child again, free of regrets, full of dreams and optimistic about the next day.I was conscious about her race and ethnicity and all the precious baggage that they came with.Don’t try to downplay her cause she’s white.” But not everyone agreed. Josh White wrote: “I just like interracial dating .