Online dating guide first contact
Generally, putting things in writing demands greater care than spoken communication - and the speed and ease of email can be both seductive and deceptive.
Always read through your messages before you send them - keep an eye out for slips of spelling and grammar and make sure that what you have written reflects what you really want to say.
That being said, 40% were in favour of splitting the bill.
If you would like to take over the bill, then let the other person know beforehand, so that he or she can either suggest otherwise or just enjoy the treat.
If she accepts, then he should not see that as a come-on.
And if the other person absolutely insists on paying, don’t engage in a prolonged and heated discussion about it.
As a woman, if the man doesn’t suggest treating you, don’t take it amiss: he might be concerned that you don’t like the idea of conventional roles or that you might think he will automatically expect something in return.
Old-fashioned gallantry might possibly be interpreted as politically incorrect, but good manners never go amiss.
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